my experience has been different than Ed's.
I use Cactus juice currently although there are several other stabilizing chemicals out there that also are good. I've tested at least three others, all with good results.
15 years ago I took a run at "home" stabilizing and the chemicals that were out at that time didn't work (Minwax Hardener for example) or didn't do what was needed for knife handles. Today there is at least 5 choices. The hardware needed to treat wood varies from paint pots to acrylic chambers to just a soak bucket. More time is taken to soak wood when working on the smaller scale than the pro's.
There are way more pen makers than knife makers and they are years ahead of knife makers in treating wood. If you want to research stabilizing, look to the pen making community. Duck call makers are pretty serious about their craft also.
Getting full chemical penetration of wood with a home brewed setup isn't that hard. It just takes a bit of time. Using dye in the stabilizer proves the penetration is complete.
I've been spending quite a bit of time lately working with stabilizing and dying wood. I can say for a fact that there is a learning curve and you should expect some annoying failures.
In my mind, I believe with some time spent on good technique, the average guy can dye and stabilize as well as the pro's. The question is however does the average guy want to invest in vac/pressure pots, a good vac setup, the chemicals, the dyes, obtaining and cutting the wood, cleaning it up, dealing with failures, etc? Does he want to do all that vs buying a block/scales of nice material and making knives? For some guys it's just about making knives, for other guys it's about all the rabbit holes you can go down when making a knife. I'm not sure the average guy will recoup all the costs associated with stabilizing their own material. I'm also pretty sure knife makers can make more per hour concentrating on making knives than coloring wood pieces.
Dyed/stabilized wood prices are fairly low as most anyone with a chainsaw and band saw can cut wood blocks, throw them in some juice, bake them and sell them.