Jake
Now I understand what you mean from your original post.
Everybody grinds differently. Probably has something to do with our equipment, probably has something on how we learned to grind, what makes each maker feel comfortable, and a large variety of other reasons. I could tell you how I do it, and it would not help you at all. Some makers grind edge up, some edge down, some use jigs, some don't use jigs, etc. etc. etc.
Irrespective of all that - You Tube has a bunch of stuff on how to grind knives. Here is one example.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=67mlIJKna7w&feature=youtube_gdata_player
You can find dozens and dozens of more helpful videos. Take a look, find what you like. More importantly, find what works for you. And practice, practice, practice. You will get better and better with every knife that you make. A
It just takes a bit of work, a good plan, and some practice time.
Keep grinding.
DeMo