I don't know what you're milling or the feed rate your using, however, milling at 250 may be a bit slow for what you are doing. If you try to feed the material into a mill turning to slow you are trying to take to much material off with every rotation of the mill. That would definitely eat up an end mill. That would be like running a regular drill at a slow rpm and hanging off the handle to put downward pressure on the drill bit to cut. I'm new to machining myself. Some of my ideas may be a little off, who knows.