I hate to hear that Smitty!
Sometimes on larger items it is best to specify local pick-up, when you put up for sale. I see adds on Craigslist for local pick-up only all the time. It tends to limit your buyer pool but, eliminates all the hassle you have to go thru to box and sell.
The cost and weight can be prohibitive on larger items. Or you can build a big crate and go with a freight company for transportation, they will usually pick-up, transport and deliver. Anyway that is about all I got,maybe others will have some better ideas!! They will pick-up and deliver pretty much anywhere. I once purchased a welder and it was delivered on an 18 wheeler. I live on a dead-end street and he must have known because he stopped on the main street and backed a 1/4 of mile down the road to deliver the welder right to my door!