Very true. A lot of things have come very easily to me in my life, but anything that I am really good at is something that I struggled mightily to get proficient at. Knifemaking is in the latter group. I can't say any part of it has come easily. Everything that I learn seems to come from a royal butt-kicking.
I'm a big fan of Walter Sorrells on youtube. He said something that really helped me: "Fail your way to success." And that's been the utter truth for me. As a newbie, my successes are a direct result of perseverance when I have really begun to doubt myself. Just pushing through the frustration makes me realize that it's not rocket science, but it definitely is a lot of hard work. If there's a secret, it's that shortcuts produce results that look like you took shortcuts.